Women-One of the best managers ever!!!!

Hi everyone....

Let me start from my work place…. Hmmmm…. There is a lot to talk about this place. It has been just about 4 months that I have been working here and 2 months before marriage and it’s been 2 months since marriage that I am working here.

As every coin has its two sides…. My job also has some ups and downs…. Some days are very exciting and some days are so bad that I feel very dull and just say to myself this is all I can give to this organisation….

But yes, sometimes I feel so great that I would be ready to stay till the night and complete the work and move on. But sometimes it is so irritating and frustrating that I feel like just leaving this place. I think this is the feeling everyone goes through when he/she is working. I have heard this from most my classmates also.

Most people have the option of adjusting wither in at work place or at home and then do the other. But I never had that option. I started professional and personal life simultaneously…. I think I am enjoying it, as I need to manage many things and people. I need to see that I fulfill my responsibilities at home as well as office. I need to be efficient enough so that I could keep things going.

I was pretty scared and felt jittery when ever I used to think of the fact that I need to adjust and stay with another person who is totally a different individual…. This needs some effort and as said I can’t afford to be bad at office also. The only thing that used to strike me in such conditions is what Aditya used to tell me…. “Two different bricks/moulds can’t be fitted into one another perfectly.” This used to comfort me so much that I used to feel relaxed. This made up my mind that I needed to adjust with the person and still do other things. I also felt good about the fact that he also knew we couldn’t be perfect.

I got this thought of writing about it while I was talking to my mother-in-law yesterday. I think what she said while talking another lady friend of hers was just amazing. She said “Women are made by god in such a way that they can manage things even when put in a situation which is much different. We move from our mother’s place and all of a sudden call the other place also as our home and things suddenly change…. “ After hearing this I was just feeling great and realized that I also went through it without even feeling a bit.

This is what I think women can do and I think she is the future of this country….

My feelings.... On the completion of 3 months of marriage....

Hey guys....

I am back again after a short break!!!! Today is 11th Aug..... Hmmmm....It’s been 3 months that I have got married.... It’s been a great and fantastic experience till date. My better half has been of great help to me in everything I did. Be it managing office work or work at home.... He is one person I have always adored so much that I have always felt and still feel that I need to be like him. I am just amazed with the way he manages things and situations and gets out of it to see the reality.

I am just amazed even with the way he manages to do various things at a time and still do a good job of everything. The best part is that he involves me in everything and I am there in everything he does. I mean to say that for me he would adjust things and also complete his official work, which, is a very important for me as well as for him. This keeps me happy most of the times….

There are ups and downs in everybody's life and we also have them.... But we both enjoy such things also and make sure that the whole thing ends in a laugh….

I have had the great opportunity to be a part of large groups where Aditya has been a great contributor. I feel good about the whole thing. I also feel very good about the fact that he gives me my personal space, which is generally absent after marriage. He allows me to lead my life as I want to. He has been a great inspiration when it comes to anything I have to do…. He is a very adorable and lovely person to be with…. I just don’t understand how time passes by when I spend time with him.

I should thank everyone responsible for us to meet and especially my amma to have told me that I need to be persistent and patient while I was getting into the relation. These two words have really changed my life…. Thanks amma…. Thank you so much…. (Sorry for becoming emotional….hehe)

Me and My Feeling during my Marriage!!!!

Hey everyone!!!! I had created an account on blogger.com long time ago, may be about 4 to 5 months back…. I used to read the blogs written by my friends and used to feel that even I would want to share things with my friends…. May be about myself or about my experiences and feelings….

Last week I read a blog written by one of my friends and then I decided I would also start blogging….

Nivi, my very close friend, who kept pursuing the idea of me blogging…. Thanks dear.... She time and again used to tell me about my decision to start blogging…. This is the history behind why I started my blog.

First about my marriage…. The experience was great but then I never was able to comprehend what was happening during those 4 days…. Starting with the "Chapradu Pooje" and ending with the "Venkateswara Kalyana". I had great fun getting ready for all the functions since I was the center of attraction.

During the "Chapradu Pooje" I never felt that I was getting married…. I never realized the very feeling behind it. The same day evening when we went to the marriage hall I realized and it hit me hard and strong…. This was the very moment all my tension started. It was a mixed feeling… I was excited as well as tensed, sad etc… I never can explain what I felt…. After that I never realized how time passed. The day of the marriage came, 11 ^th May – A very important day of my life. It was 7:30 A.M. when I sat for my "Gauri Pooje"…. The tension in me kept building up. It was 9:00 A.M. and the purohit asked my uncles to guide me to the stage…. I was terribly tensed and I was almost on the verge of crying…. It was 9:30 A.M. and I was already married to Mr. Aditya Rao…. The moment I realized this and kept thinking of all the responsibility and more importantly the kind of life I would be leading with my hubby….

I had a lot of apprehensions before I came to Hyderabad from Mysore (Marriage happened at Mysore). But now I don't have any and I am really enjoying my life….

I got into managing a lot of things at the same time…. Since I stayed at the hostel it was not very difficult to manage work and myself. Initially it was scary or me to start cooking and then do the other chores also at home…. Rather it became a nightmare for sometime for me…. But I got over it…. Now able to manage pretty well(I think.... The best person to comment - Aditya)